The Beginning
Hi there…! I hope you all are doing fine. I know most of you would want to know why did I choose this topic for my blogs? Why Relationships, why Love, why Life? So, I decided to answer this question in my very first blog! See, whatever I’m going to share with you guys through all of my blogs will be something I’ve experienced, which I have seen, as per my understanding of life. So, for me, few questions arose when I thought to come up with this, which was- “What does life is all about?” “What really matters in the end?” “what are the elements which make a life?” “why after all the shitty things that happen in life, life is still worth living!” I came to realize that life is all about rediscovery! Rediscovery of yourself! It all starts with us, ends with us! It is about the life choices that we make. We come into this world. We come to know ourselves, and we form relationships with people by making friends, families, neighbors, colleagues, etc. We all have our own share of experiences and struggles. All our life experiences revolve around the relationships we form in our life. For example, if you are more connected with yourself than the outside world, your life experiences will be mostly about your health, work, choices, passion, and struggles to achieve these things. Whereas if you are more connected with your family, your life experiences will be about maintaining family relations, taking care of them, doing things for them, putting efforts to make things memorable for them, etc. Accordingly applies to every other relationship. So yeah, it is a fact that our life experiences revolve around relationships; that’s why it becomes necessary to take care of the relationships that we form in our lives.
N here I am, to share the little things that will help you do so and lead a beautiful life! Coming back to answer this question- “why, after all the shitty things that happen in life, is life still worth living?” It is a fact that we can’t deny or avoid life. It is still gonna continue no matter how good or bad you feel about it. You need to know that even if you don’t have the choice to avoid it, you still have a choice not to hurt yourself, not to lead a stagnant life, not to remain stuck in a bad phase; you do have that choice! So why not make a good choice for yourself? N about Love! I don’t know where to begin! Even though all the emotions are complicated yet love still tops the list by being the most complex! Everyone has their own way of defining it. Some people want to hold the other person as tightly as they can, by always being there, by being part of everything they do, for them, that is love. Few believe in setting the other person free in every way, loving them differently; for them, that is love. Some of us want to see that person happy with us only; we can’t even think of letting that person go at any cost! Few of us want them to be happy with or even without us! N I believe – All of its love!
I would just say one thing- if you didn’t love while being alive, you wasted your life! Now I am damn sure; all the single people will rush to tell what about us, we don’t have anyone, we don’t find anyone, how can we love, then there will be loners who will come- oh! You know what? We just hate people! We don’t want them! Hahahaha! We love animals! Exactly, that’s it! When I talk about love, it doesn’t mean loving someone of another gender.
You can fall in love with yourself, your pets, nature, music, art, anything! But don’t forget to love, that’s all I’m saying! Stay tuned and be ready to relate yourself to find answers to those questions which you never dare to ask yourself; to take a peek into the calmness out of busy running life; to breathe and have that cup of tea or coffee or hot water or a Mean drink (as my friend call it)! Relax, and make yourself comfortable while being here on my page, don’t forget to enjoy my writing!