This is about a perfectly imperfect girl who doesn’t possess conventional traits of perfection. She is an ordinary girl—one not every guy falls for, but one every guy wishes to fall for! She is incredibly sensitive about feelings and emotions but doesn’t let herself be overtaken by them. She’s not the girl every guy wants to flirt with, but she is definitely someone every guy would want to settle with!

She is so ordinary and full of variety that you can blend her into anything you want or turn her into whatever you wish for! She has spent time alone, away from the world, people, and places, to get to know herself—what she really is, what she can achieve, and what she can demand. She might not have many dresses to flaunt when she’s out, but she looks good in whatever she wears for herself. She may not be the most popular or the most sought-after person in a room, but she has the potential to be that person. It’s just that she doesn’t want to compete with the ubiquitous divas that everyone fantasizes about!

She wants to be uniquely different and doesn’t believe in following the typical standards of being desired or wished for. She’s not from the rich category that needs to maintain everything about herself. She’s fine with the unmaintained aspects of herself most of the time. She’s not an atheist or super-religious. Nowadays, being a believer is considered boring and uncool, whereas being an atheist garners a lot of attention.

She’s not the type to wear her heart on her sleeve, which may make her seem less exciting to those around her. She doesn’t like to expose her true emotions to everyone or make herself vulnerable unnecessarily. But if she truly likes someone or falls in love, no one can express their emotions more fiercely or passionately than she can. She might be scared of things, people, places, or even ghosts (haha). Her bravery isn’t confined to traditional definitions; it’s beyond that. For her, it’s okay to be a little girlish at times, and by being scared, she can actually enjoy every emotion that exists and learn how to conquer her fears!

She might not have clear skin, a perfect nose, or a well-shaped body, but she definitely has crystal-clear eyes that see beauty in others. She has an averagely beautiful face that speaks for itself and an amazing smile that can soothe any troubled heart. She’s not the kind of woman who needs to lead every situation, but when given the opportunity, she can lead things in the best way possible. She doesn’t need sports shoes for a trip or heels for a party. She can enjoy adventures barefoot and dance without those classy heels!

When she falls in love or makes friends, she will fight for them. She’s not so cool that she rides a bike everywhere or participates in every debate to win. She’s someone who gets high on house parties—not from drinking, but from good music. Her makeup might be limited to lipstick and eyeliner, yet she’s always ready to go out with that little makeup. She has accepted her skin and scars. Though she may not be as photogenic as others on the internet, she still enjoys taking and posting pictures because she is happy and confident about her appearance.

She doesn’t need fake flattery or false compliments; in fact, she prefers silence over insincere praise. She knows who she is and has accepted herself as she is. She might not always make perfect decisions, and she may often be confused and blank about her choices, but she never regrets them. She takes responsibility for her decisions, whether good or bad. And yes, she can keep secrets—just don’t tell her that they’re secrets! She can keep countless secrets.

She might not be the super-understanding woman every man dreams of, but she will make ten efforts to understand before assigning blame. She can be unpredictable or unexpected at times because, after all, she is an ordinary girl. She wishes to love and be loved. She might lose her calm, fight, be childish, or get jealous—because even the most mature women have done these things at some point and learned from them.

You don’t need to make her your business partner. She doesn’t need to know everything about your business to suggest excellent ideas. Sometimes, extraordinary ideas come from ordinary minds that aren’t focused on practicing brilliance.

She may not fit the conventional mold of the perfect girl—whether in height, hair type, or body shape. She doesn’t need to fit into society’s standards. Who are we to judge her body measurements or how she chooses to present herself? If she’s covering up, she’s considered typical and orthodox. If she’s not covering up enough, she’s labeled a show-off. If she has few friends, she’s a loner; if she has many, she’s an extrovert. Who are we to decide how many friends she should have?

She’s neither an introvert nor an extrovert. She’s not always cute or sexy, not dumb nor super-intellectual, not a loner nor a socialite. She’s somewhere in between—because she is an ordinary girl. She wants to improve and is content with where she is and the way she is!

You just need to open your eyes, be more accepting, and find the person you need in your life. A perfect girl doesn’t exist, but I assure you, if you’re more accepting, you will find the woman who feels like home and to whom you can always turn to rest your soul. And this kind of woman definitely exists! I’ve seen her!