Only having so much love for someone won’t help you alone ever, Channelizing the rain of your love in a way that they not only get to experience it all but also realizes how different and unique every drop of your love is!! Because sometimes a lot of rain makes us forget how precious every drop of that rain is for us! So, a little and constant shower is something everyone needs in their life. We need to focus on being consistent in our love, of every small gesture of love towards each other. Love is not confined to a single emotion; it can be shown through thousands of little gestures towards a person. Showing care, compassion, commitment, kindness, and belief in someone shows that you love them!

We need to try to keep things simple yet pure as they were on day one! You must know and remember why you let it all start in the first place, the very first reason and feeling that you craved to have in your life, the pure and true instincts which got you into it. Usually, what happens is that as your relationship gets older, you kind of start forgetting what you intended for that person in the beginning, what you wanted for them, and what you always wished for them. Sometimes in greed for love, you forgot that expecting in return was never the thought! N now you are only expecting, yes that’s the truth!! Giving them their space and freedom was equally important to you as giving them your love was because that’s what you wanted in the beginning, right?? Setting them free, letting them explore themselves.

Love is something that if you try to bring any control with it, it starts to feel unwanted, worthless, and forceful!! Do you know who gets success in their love? The ones who always remember the Basics of their relationship, the ground reasons for coming into the relationship that they are in today! They understand that giving importance to what is positive for you and your relationship is all that matters! Because negativity and mistakes are something that is everywhere and keeps coming our way. You attract the things that you constantly think about! If you wish good things to happen in your life, think in the same way.

Channelizing your love is so crucial for your long terms relationships to sustain. If a person is demanding certain things, and the other person is just giving and giving, this can’t be done. Because here, the person who is demanding knows what they are demanding, they know that they are asking for something, and most importantly, they know that they are getting it. So, there is a certain level of consciousness that is involved. Still, they take it for granted & are not bothered about acknowledging what they are receiving. So, you can’t keep showering your love without them realizing and acknowledging your efforts. Else there will be a day when you will get tired of it & simply leave! Because a lot of rain makes the plant die, while a steady flow helps it grow beautifully!

You have to channel your love so, they start acknowledging it, valuing it, and being thankful for it. But only sitting back and feeling that you are giving so much and getting nothing in return is wrong. Because many times the other person does not even realize it. Learn to respect yourself, your efforts & your love so that others will too!